tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7937004754383807708.post3448525027207111273..comments2023-08-15T05:10:23.004-04:00Comments on Lady Ngo's World: Modern HousewifeLadyNgohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00875332361921132497noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7937004754383807708.post-2347467156339388092011-04-11T11:56:48.635-04:002011-04-11T11:56:48.635-04:00Nice encouragement, Ibhade!
My Sis once asked me ...Nice encouragement, Ibhade! <br />My Sis once asked me this 'would you like to be a housewife' question, and I said no very emphatically, altho I couldn't really give my reasons why at the time. I just said, 'after all my efforts in school?? Ai I would have just jisted and socialized like some other ladies I used to observe' :) The money I could make is good, so is the freedom from tyrannical husband (tho I will not be married to such (kneels and prays to God) lol.<br /><br />So sorry about the job interview stress. It is well!Northern Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05635844686445684430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7937004754383807708.post-65015615644793316122011-03-27T13:47:54.267-04:002011-03-27T13:47:54.267-04:00Though as a housewife for a decade now, I WOULD NE...Though as a housewife for a decade now, I WOULD NEVER ADVISE ANYBODY TO BE ONE! IT JUST DON'T WORTH THE STRESS & INSULT FROM BOTH FAMILIES, FRIENDS & NEIGHBOURS! Is ONLY the kids that appreciate it, but when they grow older, would they like to see me stay at home all day & poke nose into their business? HELL NO! infact they might secretly come to 'dislike' me. Nevertheless, the ONLY advantage of being a housewife is to be there to groom & watch them grow up before letting them fly off the nest. I don't like maids...so many bad tales trailing them....i am grooming my daughters to take care of their younger ones & cook & clean the home..until i am confident enough to leave them all alone & seek an income for myself.<br /><br />An interesting post..weldone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7937004754383807708.post-74399331286207228572011-03-27T10:58:24.176-04:002011-03-27T10:58:24.176-04:00We are in a modern world. No man will want to marr...We are in a modern world. No man will want to marry a 'liability', i.e. a woman who will depend on him for virtually everything from buying of lingerie to paying of bills etc. A modern day man wants to marry a professional, somebody who will complement his effort. Take my family for instance, I am professional, my wife is a professional, we have 3 kids. Instead of asking my wife to sit at home and tend the children, what I did was to employ a housemaid who will take care of the children and the home while we are away at our different offices.<br /><br />On the issue of cooking for the man, most men prefer to eat food prepared by their wives. But if the circumstances will not allow that, then a housemaid can prepare the food when you are both away. But on weekends when you are both available then the wife MUST prepare the food while the husband complements. Again take my case for instance, on weekends while my wife prepare our food I complement her effort by 'stealing' some of the meats in the kitchen. LOl<br /><br />By and large these issues have to be discussed at the initial stage rather than it becoming an issue after marriage.Surprisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035143859254838769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7937004754383807708.post-87602502954102621362011-03-26T20:50:08.717-04:002011-03-26T20:50:08.717-04:00i dnt wnt to be a housewife!,lol. on the flip side...i dnt wnt to be a housewife!,lol. on the flip side, i dnt wnt to be completely immersed in my career that i wont even have time for my kids and husband. Even though i'm studying law, the plan is to work for a while, then start a full time career as a writer so i'll have more time for family.kitkathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06768682440881142726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7937004754383807708.post-74381762796391463922011-03-26T18:41:48.403-04:002011-03-26T18:41:48.403-04:00From your mouth to God's ears!!! Especially on...From your mouth to God's ears!!! Especially on the appreciation count. On day after a long trip, the boyfrnd YY said he was hungry..:-o...Duh!!! "why didnt you let us stop by somewhere and get food?". Anyway, I decided to warm this bowl of rice his sister had given me, as tired as I was. And after bringing it to him in the room, he said "ahnahn, you didnt even make this palatable!"<br />Pala what? At about 11pm after being on the road all day?! mcheewww<br />I just dropped the plate on the floor and hit the bed. He spent the next 2 days apologizing and an eternity being reminded of that incident which could have been averted with a simple even if fake "thank you"1HoneyDamehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06630155612892969091noreply@blogger.com