Thursday, October 9, 2014

Tales of baby mamas and baby daddies

Why is it that when a man has an awful baby mama , we're all quick to/expected to sympathize with him. But when a single mother has a deadbeat baby daddy, the natural inclination is to blame her for choosing to lay with said deadbeat?

Men have far more control over whom they procreate with- a sentiment most people fail to realize. Sure, women are the ones with the "right to choose" (if youre in the right place) but if the woman wasnt pregnant to begin with then it wouldnt even come to that. Afterall, whens the last time a woman shot an egg (and means to incubate a developing child) at a man? Right.

To be honest, theres very little a woman can do to control a mans actions once he's in there. Take it from someone who has been on the victim end of an aint shit person who did the quick dip out-slide the condom off-and slip back in move. Thankfully there was no pregnancy and no germs picked up. Believe me ladies and gents, your dear friend Lady Ngo would surely have caught a body behind that foolishness had the outcome been different. I will tell you that this scuzzbucket is no longer on this continent and if he knows whats good for him he had best not let me catch him anywhere near me.

Im rambling, i know lol. but i just get so tired of the narrative. and especially with the double standard it comes with.

Please feel free to agree or disagree with me.

*I just realized i did 2 pregnancy based posts in a row. relax your eyebrows and furrowed brows folks. im not trying to subliminally tell u anything lol.

10 comments:

  1. h ehehe wow i cant believe someone did that to you that so trifling i hate to use that word but just what it is. i guess society blame the woman because she is the one who ends up being stuck with the baby while the guy just walks away at the most he pays childsupport ( if the state can get him to pay) but the female does most of the work. it sad but that just the way it is

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    1. You'd be surprised how many times this type of thing happens. Some ppl are just....yeah. lol.

      Lol, women are the primary caregivers even when the fathers are in the picture

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  2. Hmmmmm....my eyebrows were severely furrowed. I was already plotting how to roll up and take out this deadbeat! I completely agree with you. The narrative is so tedious. Men get to choose how to behave and the women still get the short stick on the cop out of "you should have held your legs together." Well I didn't, neither did he, that's besides the point right now. The issue here is being a responsible adult taking care of the consequences of your action.

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    1. You would think people would be more focused on taking care of their responsibilities rather than throw themselves a pity party over whom they ejaculated into...

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  3. Not subliminally listening either. It has been a while. Hi!!!

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    1. Omg, is SNM really making an appearance? Wonders shall never cease lol. Heeeeeeeey you!

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  4. Thank goodness no germs were transmitted. You can always take the morning after pill to prevent stop getting pregnant. But how do you stop something like HIV if he had that?

    I shudder...

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    1. You understand my fury then lol. Thank goodness indeed. STD testing isnt cheap either. All that headache and potential life altering drama and for what?

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  5. I have been staring at the screen for five minutes and i still don't know what to say hun. Speechless. Just speechless.

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    1. Aside from the rage, i was speechless too. Like, who does ish like that? Unfortunately the answer is lots of people

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