Monday, February 20, 2012

Starting the week off right

With some randoms...


I have a phobia of being misunderstood. I'm not sure where it came from, but its definitely something i've become more cognizant of recently.

My Saturday-Sunday was awesome thanks to someone very special and I just wanna say thank u and luv u bunches. *You know yourself*
I mean "awesome" in a completely family-friendly kinda way before you people start getting the wrong idea lol
There's this guy that i kinda sorta have my eye on. Then there's this girl that i think has her eye on the same dude. She has been acting a hot funky mess towards me recently- and i think its over the guy. But she clearly doesn't know that if she keeps this mess up, she's gonna be walking down the street with 3 shoes...2 on her feet and one in her ass! #DontMessWithMe

So me and special person mentioned in bullet 2 did some detective work this weekend, and i think we've cracked the case of the mysterious secret admirer lol. Definitely wasn't who i expected...but then again we could be wrong.

Somebody just walked past my door and let out the loudest most disgusting belch i've ever heard. Nasty Mofos!

I'm a major procrastinator. I would've thought that by now i would have outgrown this but clearly i haven't. I spent all day saturday doing assignments that i put off til the last minute. SMH. I need to do better.

my roots = thick as hell. at some point this week i need to make an appointment with my stylist. can't be walking around looking like this anymore.

Hayle to the naw wit all these pregnancies and engagements. I thought 2010 and 2011 were bad. Damn yo, literally every day i find out something new. Well God bless all those in my life that are embarking on the journey of marriage and/or parenthood this year. (i'm good though)

I bought new shower gel that smells amazing and has my skin feeling smooth as silk and as soft as what i've always imagined a cloud would feel like. Awesome-sauce

You cannot pay me enough to work with high school kids. No Sir/Ma'am! Having to deal with those little *expletive* for one day was waaaaay more than enough for me.

Happy new week good people!

18 comments:

  1. I too have a fear of being misunderstood and I would rather tear someone a chest-hole than have then try to deduce my meaning and doing it incorrectly.

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    1. glad i'm not alone in this! i can't stand for someone to twist my words and run with it, whether its intentional or not

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  2. I'll love to hear about your "Search For The Secret Admirer" sounds interesting. I bet we could put your detective skills to good use finding Boko Haram peeps.

    Detective LadyNgo

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    1. Well my friend was the real Sherlock...i was more like Watson...picking up the pieces Holmes left behind (i'm sure that's not how it goes in the actual book but it seemed like a good analogy at the moment)

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  3. Thick roots? Are you a Natural too?
    I think I had that phobia once but one day I read a quote saying something about 'I take responsibility for what I say and not what you understand...' twas like an eye opener, I dont really care as long as my conscience is void of offence!

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    1. Nah, i'm not natural, im just really horribly terribly lazy about getting my hair done. And there aren't too many black stylists in my area which is absurd considering i live in a "major city"

      I'll have to work on that phobia of mine then. It really is annoying and i don't even know where it came from. I think from being more present in the webiverse where its really easy to misconstrue people's words and intentions...

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  4. Lady Ngo!! Still cracking up @ she's gonna be walking down the street with 3 shoes...2 on her feet and one in her ass!

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    1. I can't take all the credit...i got that from a movie years and years ago.

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  5. LmaO ------> "she's gonna be walking down the street with 3 shoes...2 on her feet and one in her ass! #DontMessWithMe" have a Blessed week dear.. :)

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    1. You know i'm a thug DiDi lol

      Wishing you a beautiful and blessed week as well hun :)

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  6. I'm sooo using that 3 shoe line!! Word on the pregnancies and marriages, love is in the air

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    1. Love and "lovin" are in the air lol.

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  7. I felt misunderstood a lot growing up, but at this stage, I've learnt to do a #kanyeshrug. I can't really control how people interpret my words, I can only be sure I said what I wanted to say the way I meant to say it.

    So who is the SA?

    High school kids? SMH :)

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    1. IDK why but it just seems so much easier said than done...but i'm working on it.

      I plead the 5th on who i presume the SA is...and will only confirm should he decide to come forward and show face lol

      Yes o, i talked to my supervisor and even she said those kids at our event were just awful lol. I'm glad that was a 1-time thing for me.

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  8. LOL LadyNgo. You are so hilarious. So you tryna say no one should pop 'the' question to you yet ? Or you are not ready to be a mommy yet?

    And when it comes to being misunderstood, I have built a wall up for that. I try not to let it get to me. Not everyone understands everyone but I do wish sometimes that everyone could just UNDERSTAND!!.

    Have a fabulous week!!

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    1. Well i'm definitely not interested in being anyone's mother. As for "the" question...well i'd like to be a gf first, then we can work our way to fiance/wife lol

      You have a great week to hun!

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  9. Pls what's with 'having an eye on someone? make a move ladeedah..no procrastinating on this one :p

    I see you love smelly things. last time it was roll on. now shower gels smh. dont you just hate it when your nose acclimatises after 4 days and you cant smell it anymore...

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    1. Ginger...nwannem, you're always trying to put me for trouble with guys lol. First the Parisian guy now this! Well i would make consider making a move but that would make our work environment awkward...

      OMG, I doooooooo love smell-goods! But i have a rotation, can't have people getting used to my scent lol

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