"You can't help who you love" because "The heart wants what the heart wants"
Its true and i don't care what anyone says. You can't help who you fall in love with. I feel like i can speak for every chick thats ever been in love with someone who was a jerk/douchebag/asshole, ugly, broke, dumb, lame, etc. Trust, if i could help who it was that i fell in love with I'd only be in love with beautiful, intelligent, successful, funny, mature, honest, God-fearing men!
"Love is a choice"
Absolutely not. Completely false. Not buying it! Love is not a choice. Who on earth chooses to love someone? Thats not really love in my opinion. Thats settling, routine, comfort, familiarity, etc. Not love.
Love, and how strong it is, is the catalyst that sparks the choices we make (or at least it should). Whether you're going to be faithful or cheat, whether your gonna be sweet or an abuser, whether you're going to be romantic or a bore, whether you're going to be helpful or a hinderance...those are choices.
You can also choose who you allow yourself to get to know, which might lead to you loving them. But actually choosing to love...nah.
"Love is many things. Its varied. But one thing it is not, and can never be, is unsure" -Maya Angelou (Madea's Family Reunion, 2006)
I don't think i've ever been unsure about whether or not i actually loved someone. I've been unsure about whether or not i should be with that person. I've been unsure about whether or not things would work out. And i've been unsure about whether or not they loved me. But i've never been unsure of my love.
So Beyonce is finally knocked up?!? Well thank goodness, now that ho can go sit her ass down somewhere. In case u can't tell, im not a Beyonce fan lol. I was once upon a time but she, like most other musicians these days, is just too over the top for me. And she just has this aura of fakeness. And to be quite frank, im tired of seeing her. She has over-saturated the market!
And what the gah'damn hell was Nicki Minaj's goofy ass wearing at the VMAs?!? That whole getting dressed like your blind in one eye and can't see out the other was a cute gimmick in the beginning but its time to rely on your talent and hang the rest of the ish up #flatscreen