Monday, April 18, 2011

The new goodnight kiss



(Ok, im a horrible person because my first thought when i watched this was thank God they are white/not black! Thats not to say that i don't think lil black girls are runnin around like this too cuz im sure they are but its just refreshing to not have to be the one on the awful news story every once in a while) Anywho...this is crazy. Oral sex is "no big deal"? Sex parties? Having sex for answers on your homework? Selling your virginity? What the F*CK. I can't even imagine. It wasn't THAT long ago that i was in middle/high school. In my day, girls definitely were not running around sucking d*cks. That was behavior of hookers, nasty girls, etc (i've never outgrown that mentality so u can guess at least 1 thing that i don't do lol TMI?). And if you were going down on dudes, u certainly weren't telling anyone other than maybe ur bestie (if that) about it. What's scariest is that these lil girls don't have any shame at all. Even if i were doing those things i'd be damned if i went on national tv and told everybody!

And this right here is why i've never wanted daughters! Or at the very least, i want to have boys first so they can play that protective big brother role. It used to be that I didn't want any girls because girls have attitudes, and get periods, and are supposed to be good whereas "boys will be boys"- not to mention that if your daughter turns up pregnant theres not a chance in hell that its not hers lol. But a boy comes home saying some chick is pinning a baby on him, there's still some hope that the girl was a loosey-goosey and it really belongs to somebody else's son.

Then i went through a phase (after i got to college) where i didn't want any daughters because of all the crap that i pulled when i was a teenager- and i wasn't even half as bad as my friends. I was the girl that while everyone else had started skipping classes in middle school, i didn't start ditching until like 11th grade but still kept my As and occasional Bs. I was the girl that would have a swig of alcohol and never ever touched a drug (still haven't) while my friends were getting nice and toasty and/or high as a kite. I was the girl that used to sneak out of the house at night and go run around joking and laughing, and occasionally sneaking into the city- not sneaking out and going to a freaking orgy!

Now we are on a completely different playing field. If i hadn't seen this clip i never would've imagined things like this were happening- especially since this was hardly an issue when i was in high school which was only 2001-2005. Being a good, involved parent isn't enough anymore. I know that the biggest reason why i wasn't a complete rebel is because i knew the caliber of ass-whooping that would be awaiting my if i slipped up and start acting a complete fool! One of the lines that i've always heard from my parents as well as others is "You can't fool me/get away with things because everything you do i've already done". Well that clearly isn't the case anymore! I can't imagine what it would be like as a single dad and finding out this is what your daughter is doing.

13 comments:

  1. MMM..the whole thing tire me oh
    I believe internet porn plays a huge part in 'corrupting' kids of today.

    I have 3 boys ...and believe me I still get worried - with all the STDs, nymphos and NFA girls out there!

    (PS - NFA= No future ambition)

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  2. "not to mention that if your daughter turns up pregnant theres not a chance in hell that its not hers"..very funny.

    we are in Jet age. Things are changing rapidly. I could remember when I was growing up, I dare not ask my parents reason for their actions. But today, ask your little boy or girl to do something, he or she will ask you why must it be him or her. But some of the stuff here look strange to me though. Sex for answers on homework? smh.

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  3. I think the oral sex option became popular in answer to the society's praise of virginity and the advent of AIDS. A gilr who indulges in Oral sex can still answer to Virgin (no be so?) and then there was the impression that oral sex transmission of AIDS was low. Well they forgot other STDs like Herpes and Syphilis. You need to watch the movie "She's too young"
    Sad.
    I still looking forward to having a girl/s!!! That my son could be the one causing pain to other girls (using and dumping) gives me more worries.
    I enjoyed reading!!

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  4. This is sooo disturbing, I am afraid for what the world is turning into. most teenager are definitely over exposed. I need to start prayer for the children I am going to have.

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  5. smh, this isnt shocking news. Today's world is jst so messed up.

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  6. Are you kidding me? See that girl that they covered her face having gangbangs! This is messed up. White parents should step it up. Well, all parents really. Over-exposure is killing us- a product of the information age maybe??

    Adiya

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  7. This is one of the reasons i'm happy i didn't have a sister.*Thanks alot mom*

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  8. That is one upsetting video, what is this world really coming to. I don't doubt that Nigeria is not paradise but in some cases like raising children, it is probably safer. Na wa o..

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  9. @Naijamum and Corner Shop- i think its overexposure coupled with a lack of parenting and proper sex education.
    @Surprise-I think parents are getting soft in that regard. My parents weren't overly strict but we knew not to question them and we knew not to do things that would disappoint.
    @Ginger- i've thought about the boys being the ones out there breaking hearts too but im hoping me and the father of my kids will be able to be good role models so that they know how to properly treat a girl.
    @9jaFoodie- yes o! if its like this now, i can't imagine what it will be like 20 years from now when my future kids will be teens.
    @kitkat- im only shocked at how widespread it is
    @A-9ja-Great- you are missing out o! having sisters is great (if you don't have to deal wit the foolishness from the video clip)
    @Myne- i don't think any one place is better than the other. crazy stuff happens everywhere. From this vid, to the 15 year old UK girl who claimed to have had a baby by an 11 year old boy, to kids being kidnapped and forced to be would-be wives to perverted old men in Naija. Every place has its own sordid tales. The world really is going to hell in a handbasket no matter what corner of the earth you occupy.

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  10. The aftermath of a generation being raised by divorced parents...growing up in a generation where children have to raise themselves because Mummy and Daddy are working and not paying attention to them. A generation that is influenced by what they see in the media, Hip Hop (yes I blame them too), pop music...oversexed role models. Parents are not available to show these girls the right way to go.
    Parents wanting to be cool and become friends with their daughters and sons instead of being parents.
    The reason why someone said Naija might be a safer place to raise kids, is because we still have a community mentality when it comes to raising children. If mum and dad are slacking off, best believe there is an Aunt or teacher ready to whoop your behind into shape. Perverse things like this are going on but there is still some sense of discipline.
    Parents need to wake up and realize that their job is not to be their children's best bud, it is to guide them into becoming sensible adults that can control their urges and understand that love does not and will not come from giving out what is between your legs.

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  11. O and not to say divorced parents are all bad o, because it is better to happily parent separately than parent together and be miserable.

    Its just that these children are desperate for a semblance of stable love...better than what most see modeled out between their parents (i.e. Dad and his mistresses, cheating ways. Mum and her 24 million boyfriends that treat her like a 7/11). They see that boys pay them attention and give them stuff when they give the boys sexual favors.

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