(Ok, im a horrible person because my first thought when i watched this was thank God they are white/not black! Thats not to say that i don't think lil black girls are runnin around like this too cuz im sure they are but its just refreshing to not have to be the one on the awful news story every once in a while) Anywho...this is crazy. Oral sex is "no big deal"? Sex parties? Having sex for answers on your homework? Selling your virginity? What the F*CK. I can't even imagine. It wasn't THAT long ago that i was in middle/high school. In my day, girls definitely were not running around sucking d*cks. That was behavior of hookers, nasty girls, etc (i've never outgrown that mentality so u can guess at least 1 thing that i don't do lol TMI?). And if you were going down on dudes, u certainly weren't telling anyone other than maybe ur bestie (if that) about it. What's scariest is that these lil girls don't have any shame at all. Even if i were doing those things i'd be damned if i went on national tv and told everybody!
And this right here is why i've never wanted daughters! Or at the very least, i want to have boys first so they can play that protective big brother role. It used to be that I didn't want any girls because girls have attitudes, and get periods, and are supposed to be good whereas "boys will be boys"- not to mention that if your daughter turns up pregnant theres not a chance in hell that its not hers lol. But a boy comes home saying some chick is pinning a baby on him, there's still some hope that the girl was a loosey-goosey and it really belongs to somebody else's son.
Then i went through a phase (after i got to college) where i didn't want any daughters because of all the crap that i pulled when i was a teenager- and i wasn't even half as bad as my friends. I was the girl that while everyone else had started skipping classes in middle school, i didn't start ditching until like 11th grade but still kept my As and occasional Bs. I was the girl that would have a swig of alcohol and never ever touched a drug (still haven't) while my friends were getting nice and toasty and/or high as a kite. I was the girl that used to sneak out of the house at night and go run around joking and laughing, and occasionally sneaking into the city- not sneaking out and going to a freaking orgy!
Now we are on a completely different playing field. If i hadn't seen this clip i never would've imagined things like this were happening- especially since this was hardly an issue when i was in high school which was only 2001-2005. Being a good, involved parent isn't enough anymore. I know that the biggest reason why i wasn't a complete rebel is because i knew the caliber of ass-whooping that would be awaiting my if i slipped up and start acting a complete fool! One of the lines that i've always heard from my parents as well as others is "You can't fool me/get away with things because everything you do i've already done". Well that clearly isn't the case anymore! I can't imagine what it would be like as a single dad and finding out this is what your daughter is doing.